For many Western men, Asian women are the most desirable mates in the world. Such men compare the often aggressive, confrontational, competitive nature of today’s American females with the sweet, giving, gentle, and caring attitude of women from Asia. Other men cite certain red flags that can prevent a fully satisfying relationship. This article will review some of the pros and cons of dating and/or marrying an Asian woman.
Here are some of the positive reasons for choosing an Asian woman.
In general, she is gentle, loyal, supportive, and dedicated to her man. What is important to an Asian woman is who her man is, not what he does or how much money he makes. She will stand behind him in times of trouble and stress, and rejoice in his periods of success. She always thinks of him first.
Asian women also make ideal money managers in the home. They have a good head for finance and know how to help their man conserve his income. While many western women like to spend money, the Asian woman helps her man to use it wisely and save. And with all their wisdom and intelligence, they remain wonderfully easy to be with. They rarely complain, are gentle and constructive with their criticism, and often display a delightful sense of humor.
On top of all that, Asian woman can be breathtakingly beautiful in a totally natural way, with flawless skin and no need for make-up. Moreover, they retain their youthful beauty and shape well into middle age and beyond. And, not to be overlooked, the Asian woman is usually a passionate and steadfast lover.
Finally, mature men appreciate that for many Asian women, age difference is
often not an issue. Most Asian women will say that “heart” is the quality they treasure most and age is not important. It is not unusual for an Asian woman to date or marry a man 20 or 30 years her senior. This is a major benefit for middle-aged men or seniors who prefer a much younger woman.
The above are reasons why the divorce rate for Asian-American marriages is so low compared to the population as a whole.
There are indeed some negatives, but for most men they are relatively minor.
Many Asian women have limited facility with English. This requires patience while they learn your language. They can also be jealous. They are less forgiving if a man strays and breaks the bond of trust. They are also very family bonded. They may want you to help their family still living in very modest circumstances in the homeland. Another trait is their tendency to seem secretive. On the one hand, many Asian women may be reluctant to provide details about their background or prior relationship experiences. On the other hand, their seeming secrecy can simply be shyness. They seem sometimes to live in their inner world of thought.
A final point can be major. Many American men prefer to limit their association with Asian women abroad. Some find that when they bring their gentle, sweet Asian woman back to live in the States, she soon can become westernized and adopt the more demanding, independent nature of the American “feminine lib.”
It is true that there are individual differences among the various nationalities: Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Indonesian, Thai, Malaysian, Vietnamese, Filipino. But the differences are relatively subtle.
