Asian Dating Tips

The American man may categorize US women as a tease, a ball-breaker, or a gold-digger. Some are sexually aggressive. Others may play hard to get. Too often they complain they are “too tired” or “not in the mood.” Problem is, you never know which you are going to get.

The Asian girl is different. She is much more consistent in her approach to lovemaking. Her culture breeds her to admire, support, love her man, and always be there for him. No matter what her mood or spirits, she is ready to “take care of” her lover. She may gently and demurely initiate sex. But more often she will simply readily and happily acquiesce to her man’s move.

I have had the experience of staying with a girl in my hotel and every time we returned from outside, she would close and latch the room door and automatically take off her clothes as naturally as she breathed. In short, she always wants to please you.

In fact, it is not uncommon for an Asian woman, after making love with you, to suggest you take a nap while she washes your underwear and socks, and squeezes toothpaste from your tube onto your toothbrush and setting it by the sink awaiting your pleasure. Such caring attention is unknown to the western woman. It is an almost mind-blowing experience for the unaccustomed western man.

Of all the Asians, I find the Chinese the oddest in making love. Many do not like to kiss. I’m not sure whether it is inherited as part of their culture, or whether it is based on their insistent demand for cleanliness. But it can be unsettling and frustrating for the man who wants to really make love rather than just having quick sex.

In general, you will experience a whole new world of lovemaking joy and fulfillment when you start dating Asian women.