Starbucks is a place I have met many girls. All you have to do is sit at a table there long enough, and just like in France, the world will walk by.
I have just smiled at a girl while sitting outside Starbucks and she has made the opening conversation. They sit down, you buy them a coffee and chat for awhile. Make a date for that night, or the next day, or sometimes even go back to the hotel after coffee. Though the fast ones are usually more of a professional nature. Though a professional nature in Asia, is again, nowhere near what you think anywhere else in the world. I am not sure I can really explain it, but it’s a lot more like a normal date with a sweet person.
A clue for the more professional types is they are generally more aggressive, and their cellphones are usually very expensive models. A cellphone in asia is like a badge of status. That badge costs money, and the women that generally have the spare money to spend that much on a phone are usually kept by someone, or someones, or are a working girl.
I have spent many a pleasurable afternoon at Starbucks, even if I don’t set up any dates, it’s a very relaxing way to spend the afternoon flirting with beautiful women, especially when in the states, nobody would even give me the time of day.
just.ness Said:
on February 10, 2008 at 8:08 am
why do you think these “asian beauties” would check out an old white dude with no game at home?
maybe because:
a) you stick out like a sore thumb
b) you represent wealth and a ticket out, particularly amongst the poor and pseudo-professionals
c) a + b
that you find this pleasurable in this situation is gross.
asiandatingtips Said:
on February 11, 2008 at 11:10 pm
Wel YOU might find it gross, but given a choice of being treated like a leper in the states compared to being treated with respect overseas, I think its an easy choice. Are you really suggesting that I just give up and accept that I should be treated like trash and insulted by girls here?
Ahhhh, yes, I guess you do, as you are calling me “old white dude with no game” I have game, always have, but its a sad fact of life than when you get older in the states, they wont even let you get on the damn field to play.
I am not abusing the situation over there, and most of the girls I date are not poor barefoot province girls with no hope. They have careers from store owners to lawyers. In fact many girls I know in China pay for me as they have a hell of a lot more money than I do. They are not in any hurry to leave china either. I just treat them with the respect that they DON’T get from their compatriots.
So I have a nice time with respect, they have a nice time with respect, and we don’t treat each other abusively like it seems you seem to do to any man over the puberty. So if you wonder why all the younger guys treat you like crap and then leave you, and you don’t understand why? think about the attitude that you have shown here. As someone once said to me, “in the states even the fat and ugly girls think they deserve Brad Pitt”.
Sorry if I seem harsh, but the attitude of so many women casting older guys off with disgust is a sore spot. I have all the respect in the world that you have an opinion, even if I just dont agree with it.