It is always wise to remember, “In Rome do what the Romans do.” Before visiting any Asian country it is imperative that you read about the government and the customs there. For instance, in Singapore the simple act of spitting in public can get you arrested. Shoplifting and petty burglary is common in certain Asian countries, which is one reason you often see so many security guards in the malls, by stores and outside hotels. The point is not that you would not commit such crimes yourself, but that eagle-eyed security guards are constantly on the lookout.
For the western man wanting to meet girls, there is one over-riding caveat. Asian girls quickly fall in love and become easily jealous. If you hurt her and/or show disrespect, she always has “cousins” ready to come to her aid. Also, it is a major risk to “hit on” a girl known to have a boyfriend. Westerners doing this have found themselves bloodied in the gutter. Finally, if you decide to date several girls at once, it can be smart to use two different hotels. Once you have bedded an Asian girl, she will often show up unannounced at your hotel room door just when you have another girl in bed.
Common sense tells you to be careful where you go out by yourself at night. Westerners can be the target both of muggers and pimps eager to lead you to a so-called private address where you will find no girl, or worse, robbers waiting to relieve you of your money.
When venturing out at night it is best to ask the hotel concierge for the safest destination. They will generally tell you exactly where and where not to go.
When drawing money from ATMs, do so in daylight where there are crowds around and do not show your money. Quickly tuck it in your pocket and then transfer it to your wallet later when you are alone.
It is also both wise and helpful to develop a friendship with at least one or two reliable individuals you can call if and when you encounter any problems. Carry their phone numbers with you at all times.
Using common sense will generally keep you out of trouble But no matter which Asian country you visit, you would do well to keep your eyes and ears always alert.
